I want to have Soooo bad, like pronto?

Almost all my friends have had by now. It's not that I'm jealous, it's not that I'm being pressured. I've wanted to have since the fifth grade. I've tried to invest time and effort into a relationship, but it didn't get me anywhere. Then I dated the biggest slut in our school and didn't get anything from her. How can I get almost any girl I want to have ? No stupid answers like drug her or her. That's just dumb