I was d, I had a boyfriend at the time, can our relationship survive?

Well you did the right thing by going to the police, but I would pursue this to the end!!! Don't give up on this even though you may feel that the cops aren't taking it too seriously!!! Second of all, that was going to be my advice to you. STOP YOUR DRINKING!! This wasn't your fault. Stay in touch with that police deptment and let them know how serious you are about the matter. If your boyfriend is willing to stand behind you ,then thats all that counts.